because I sure as hell don't keep lists of people's offensive posts to put up for them to prove that they are just as unpleasant as those they complain about... that one stood out for its sheer outrageousness as well as the fact that the following day, she whined about something someone said to her, just like she did here... The irony of it stuck with me so I found the example quickly and easily... Ditto the one with Z where she had the audacity to bring his WIFE into the post...

What Shadow SAID to Pikes, regardless of its 'style', was just as hateful as what she was complaining about... Yet what she said was worse, in that it was totally unprovoked and completely unwarranted, both in general as well as in that particular situation...

THAT was the point... It doesn't matter that she is hateful in a less vulgar fashion, like she apparently believes it does... I'm not at all impressed (nor less insulted) by someone saying hateful crap in 'pretty ways' with a smile on their face... That, to me, is actually worse than someone who just says 'screw off'... Same Same... although, it IS more polite, thus slightly less objectionable in polite society... But it is significantly less honest because it typically wraps itself up in 'virtue' instead of claiming its actual position right beside the vulgar versions...