clarym29Oh, I seeWed May 30, 2012 21:38126.96.36.199semantics, then. I agree. If I don't accept what is and become prepared to move on, then I will simply be stuck, emotionally, in whatever emotion (usually negative when we talk about things like this) I am feeling. I don't reject that emotion, only feel it, let it run it's course and then move on. I don't really like dwelling on that stuff. Good things I'll dwell on--negative not so much. So, it seems we pretty much agree in this area.
- Accepting what is but moving on ... Baruch, Wed May 30 21:31is what I mean by realism. To me idealism is the inability to do that, because reality is either too negative or not positive enough to suite us. On the negative side, we tend to become an armadillo... more
- Oh, I see clarym29, Wed May 30 21:38