SESI disagree.Thu Feb 10, 2011 7:12am126.96.36.199I think a Divorce that involves young children (0 to, say, 14 or 15) does harm to the children.
I know that people will say "It was better for the marriage to end than for the kids to see their parents arguing and fighting all of the time". But if the parents brought kids into the world, they should have made the kids their focus, and set their differences aside until the kids were "raised".
That's just my opinion, of course. And there are almost an infinite number of situations. One size doesn't fit all.
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