Tue Nov 28, 2017 8:05am

isn't a one way street. You could have posted some pictures of muscle men with oil all over their bodies, or boxers, or football players, or male dancers/strippers, men in suits as the breadwinners, men in uniform such as police, soldiers, firemen (on calendars), etc, etc, etc.

Sex is a human need/desire/pleasure... but UNWANTED advances or assault on a person's body or personal space is NOT needed or desired.

Many men may like to watch boxers or football players getting beat up in the rink or on the field, but that doesn't mean they want someone taking them behind the sports bar and punching them in the face or slamming them on the ground, or threatening their job if they don't play along. Not even the football players would appreciate being taken behind the sports bar, slammed to the ground and beaten up, and then having their assaulters saying they did nothing that was nonconsentual. But then we don't see that happening very often, do we?

  • Any how, I was watching the game at a Hooters...HeavyHemi, Sun Nov 26 5:09pm
    and I was really conflicted...(creative license I was not at a Hooters) The inculcation of American males with objectifying women still begins at birth. It's not as blatatant as Don't take this as a... more
    • I prefer the Tilted Kilt myself.SES, Tue Nov 28 8:57am
      I think Hooters' food sucks. And I hate those thick tights the waitresses wear. The Tilted Kilt is FAR better, in my opinion. I've been to Kilts in Pittsburgh, Annapolis, Poughkeepsie, and here in... more
      • When I is eating my grits and gravy,PH👙👙EY, Tue Nov 28 11:07am
        it is unappetizing imo to have tits and asses and linty belly buttons bringing me my food, much less taking my order. It's seems very unkosher! A restaurant is the last place to have silicon freaks... more
        • To each his or her own, I guess.SES, Tue Nov 28 11:34am
          I don't find cleavage and long legs unappetizing. I enjoy sitting at the bar, watching a football game or a baseball game or a hockey game, and having a Mushroom Swiss Burger and a beer, with... more
          • Are these bawdy wenches Brits and Scots?PH👙👙EY, Tue Nov 28 11:53am
            No doubt their cockney accents are charming. Do they do a sword dance at tilted quilt? Further I see NO diversity. Where are da black gals? Oh wait, I do see one colored girl. I prefer a good hash... more
            • Courtney was great. She was the Manager and also tended bar occasionally. She left a few months ago, though. I'll be there on Thursday night for the Cowboys-Redskins game (GO COWBOYS!). If it's a... more
              • I can tell you like the PH🤓🤓EY, Tue Nov 28 12:16pm
                a finer things in life. I jus trying to be PC. They do look to be well scrubed and clean. Wait til they get a age discrimination suit.....some old burned out former stewardess....you'll be back at... more
                • ...Hooters or some other restaurant, an ugly fat overweight girl with pink hair and all kinds of metal studs in her face went in to get an application, and was turned away -- just as she knew she... more
                  • Horrible!!PH👹👹EY, Tue Nov 28 1:09pm
                    The hash house would hire the dyke. They would have to. I suppose she thought she was attractive. Poor thing, the complete opposite of an enabler unless one counts male suicide. Given the first name... more
                    • ...she went in to ask for an application -- to see how they would react if a fat ugly pink-haired studded-faced woman tried to get a job there. I tip no more than I tip anywhere else -- 20%, rounded... more
                      • Yeah, a porky gross tub of lard PH🍒🍒EY, Wed Nov 29 9:45am
                        who goes out of her way to look gross. On the other hand, hiring just one ugly porker would make the other girls (dare I use that term) look twice as voluptuous. Good thing it's just the meat allergy ... more
                        • Two of the girls at "my" Kilt in Petersburg were selected to be on the Kilt Calendar. That was kinda cool. One of them was Andrea, who was my waitress once. By far the most beautiful girl I have ever ... more
                        • LOL...Sprout, Wed Nov 29 9:51am
                          It might make the customers who HAVE the attractive wait staff happy to have the service they are having, but it is NOT good for the customers the 'ugly porker' is serving because it fails to meet... more
      • Innapropriate BEHAVIOR is the only issue in this.Sia☺giah, Tue Nov 28 10:56am
        Sex sells. Always has, always will. It doesn't give anyone the right to TAKE what isn't offered freely and willingly, using ANY coercion or force. I couldn't care LESS about Hooters or Tilted Kilt... more
    • Objectifying.... — wondering, Tue Nov 28 8:05am
      • Just because there are reversible lanes for certain hours doesn't mean the traffic is flowing mosting in on direction. :P I'm not sure where you got the comparison to watching people play sports is... more
        • sexy, scantly dressed women peddling alcohol & food, but to be highlighting an analogy where football players who routinely tackle one another in violent attack or boxers who beat each other silly to ... more
        • Where?wondering, Tue Nov 28 3:34pm
          Just look at the environment where those suds are being sold. Sports bars have sexy bodies, both male and female, on display as they sell the suds. So do the stadiums have sexy bodies of players and... more
      • Great analogy!! (nm)PH🙃🤓EY, Tue Nov 28 12:25pm
      • You describe the crime of violencePikes, Tue Nov 28 10:15am
        If we're listening, women say rape is that kind of crime. For the woman. For the man it certainly is sexual in his release. There is nothing else in the human experience that comes close to the... more
        • A type of ' narcosis' (nm)PH👏🏾👏🏾EY, Tue Nov 28 12:27pm
        • I will not forget....wondering, Tue Nov 28 11:27am
          the rape case that involved the famous basketball player that lured a young woman up to his hotel room and then sexually assaulted her and then said it was consentual. During the trial, he said... more
          • Is her coming to his room consent?Pikes, Tue Nov 28 8:06pm
            Talk about wide latitude. No doesn't mean yes. Ever. "Put your rooty tooty point and shooty away, mister." Trump empowerered sexual assault, harassment, and intimidation like no other POTUS ever.
            • In the Kolbe case it seems to mePH🍒🍒EY, Wed Nov 29 9:53am
              she was not an innocent teen, but a fully grown mature young woman who surely would know going to a guys room is a tacit agreement to get it on. She went there to incite? Maybe she changed her mind... more
              • You think teens are innocent?wondering, Thu Nov 30 8:26am
                And women aren't? Kolbe Bryant was a star. He was in a position of power. Who would want to believe her over him? As I remember it, she was invited to his room and she went knowing he was married,... more
                • Was she a teenager?PH🌽🌽EY, Fri Dec 8 9:58am
                  I do not recall that. She went up there for sex, changed her mind after creating a situation. Maybe he pounced on her. Bruises? Females easily bruise. It's her word againt his. Since she failed to be ... more
              • There's a good reason when spinning out of control in society, it's called a witch hunt. I know people whose careers were destroyed by accusations of irresponsible young females who discovered a... more
      • There is a significant difference... If a random guy grabbed my ass, one of us is going to have the crap beaten out of us. Him or me depending on relative physical size and hand to hand combat skill. ... more
    • Yes, Hooters is mainstream selling of PH👙👙EY, Sun Nov 26 8:30pm
      food, beer, and vicarious fun. It's yet another example of Babylon's boobs and ass fetish. Our culture has gone off the rail! Why any self-respecting feline would work there is a mystery. Tips I... more
    • Serious About Sexual Harassment and Assault?Merlin, Sun Nov 26 7:32pm
      Are Sexual Harassment and Assault on the Menu at Hooters? You are suggesting we adopt a change in women's attire to protect men?
      • Sigh...HeavyHemi, Sun Nov 26 11:51pm
        Why is there this need to do this with you every time? You know what my point is but you choose to start out with some wacky extreme. No thanks.
        • What does it mean to be moderate? Pikes, Mon Nov 27 1:39am
          A moderator can know the extremes. But the choice is not to go there unless absolutely necessary. Any effort to reach for a middle ground, especially from an extreme is a remarkable thing. The "sex... more
          • My view is Harvey Weinstein was a sort ofPH👙🚽EY, Mon Nov 27 9:00am
            sacrificial "lamb." The timing imo was and is to deflect public attention away from the LV false flag patsy massacre. It's a segue, a piece of "meat" to the ravenous sick salacious appetite of the... more
          • I'm not sure what to do with that. I was just trying to have a conversation about where we were, where we are... and where are we going.
            • They want to blame women for their own shortcomings in terms of behaving like a human in terms of sex, so out of sight and out of mind with all women. Fact of the matter is that the fault is with... more
              • There you go again.HeavyHemi, Mon Nov 27 12:11pm
                Denyiny their business model depends upon ypur intentional and wilful denial. Surely your intent was not to boor me with a boorish reprise?
                • I do not deny it. I point out that men have no one to blame but themselves. Men need to man-up and fix their Business Model and themselves instead of blaming their victims.
                  • Oh...you assumed I was blaming the victims...HeavyHemi, Mon Nov 27 8:36pm
                    did that thought come to you while enjoying a glass of suds at your local Hooters? :P I'm not sure why you see them as victims. Are they victims? How about Playboy models? Are they victims?... more
                    • Not At All.Merlin, Mon Nov 27 8:47pm
                    • The victim is me. I am bored with the subject.PH💋👙EY, Mon Nov 27 8:41pm
                      Is there not another diversion we can take up and run into the ground?
                      • How about Britney Spears singing? Pikes, Tue Nov 28 1:37am
                        Unedited raw. No autotune. No editing with sound correction software. This is a first take, confirmed by the studio producer. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MUdKrtsrCBI
                        • I Have Heard Some Great Singers...Amadeus, Tue Nov 28 2:59pm
                          ...live that were just awful. The B-52's just... ngh... it wasn't pretty. Some things are simply better when not attempted live. They require careful editing, multiple takes to get things right, etc. ... more
                          • Awww, disapointed. Love the B-52s.Sia☺giah, Sat Dec 2 11:16pm
                            Expected them to be GREAT in concert.
                          • Yes, high tech studio electronic wizardry can turnPH🐷🐷EY, Tue Nov 28 3:13pm
                            a pigs ear into a silk purse. Without it some overhyped performers can only oink. The artistry might be in the on stage presence, looks and delivery. Otherwise the real artists are the audio wizards. ... more
                            • Wow. You Totally Misconstrued My Post.Amadeus, Wed Nov 29 10:09am
                              I'll simplify. Bob has talent. Bob is a good singer. If Bob doesn't try to sing nearly impossible material, Bob can sing live and do a pretty good job. When Bob has studio production to assist him,... more
                              • Tell Bob if he is only a " pretty good" singer thenPH 🎼🎤EY, Sat Dec 9 9:33pm
                                he ought to not be in a studio, much less on stage for a live-in performance. There are millions of pretty good singers. Big deal. What does Bob have? Good looks? A big crotch package? Huge tits?... more
                              • Can of wormsPikes, Wed Nov 29 11:00am
                                I passed on a good piece of advice to students. "If you want a career in music, and anything can stop you, let it." The industry changed so fast, and is changing so fast, it's more difficult and... more
                        • Haha😀. Is that not awful!PH🎹💉EY, Tue Nov 28 12:11pm
                          First time I have actually consciously listened to her. How old is she....12? ALIEN. For sure! And notice she has no clothes on. Another enabler🤓. This is non-talent pushed by marketing... more
              • Some women chase men. Some chase in the way the mousetrap chases mice. Some leadership brings out good in people. Others bad. Trump fuels lots of bad. Much of that by example. Left alone or... more
              • It takes two to tango.PH👗🌽EY, Mon Nov 27 10:30am
                Does not the apple signify knowledge? Is not this the fruit from the tree of knowledge? Don't we worship knowledge? Did not teacher get an apple from her student? Am I not typing on an APPLE product? ... more
            • Okay. What is your opinion.PH👻👻EY, Mon Nov 27 9:01am
              Where are we? Where have we been? Where are we going?