You are an Angel for bringing him and his family to be with you guys! I'm sure you made some forever memories during that time for sure.. It's a very noble thing what you are trying to do with Daisy, however if it were me, I'd try to find her a new home where she is the only dog (if that's something that you can bring yourself to do) I'm sure your brother just wants Daisy to be happy and it sounds like nobody is happy right now. It sounds like you have done everything you can to blend them, but with Daisy being 10, she's not likely to want to change her ways anytime soon, and I'm sure she misses your brother too.. Wish I had some magic wand advice for you ;( Your daughter and her hubby must be wonderful people too, to drive your brother's dog and bird down to Fla from Texas.. Just know that whatever decision you make, we are all here for you! You could have never known what would happen when you promised your brother you would keep Daisy and Popeye, but I'm sure your brother wants everybody to be happy, that, I am sure of ;-) Hugs to Maggie, I bet she's on guard all the time when Daisy is around not knowing if she's gonna get jumped or not, no fun! Much love and healing hugs to your family from ours xo Crystal and gang..
I will start by saying that Maggie is fine. So don't worry about the subject line. This will be way too long, but it has been growing for awhile. My brother who lived in Texas became ill (strokes,... more
Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie),Tue Jun 12 9:44pm
Funny how the death of a close family member has such long lasting impact and changes your life. I have to consider my brother's age and poor health and accept that it was time. However, he was such... more
about http://www.petrescuebyjudy.com/ I live in Altamonte and know people that found their rescues through her. They even have a section for Senior dogs. Can't hurt to gve her a call. I feel so bad... more
Pets by Judy — Betsy (Mom of Maggie),Tue Jun 12 9:31pm
I have heard of her and actually have seen her at a few places. That is a good suggestion. I am still trying to get my brain around giving her away, but I am a little more open to it. Of course, if I ... more
with finding Daisy the perfect home near you so you can visit her? I love the idea of renting out your guest house, but let me ask you, would Daisy and Maggie share the same back yard still? You'd... more
Hi Crystal, It has been so great to discuss this here because I feel like I am gaining some perspective and getting some great advice...which I really needed. You are so sweet to offer to find her a... more
What an awful thing to be dealing with on top of the loss of your brother. I'm so sorry for your loss. I really admire that you decided to adopt your brother's dog. But I'm sure that you had no idea... more
Hi Jen, Daisy has really surprised me. She seems docile and sort of easy-going and then she goes for the blood! She is just very assertive in many ways and it really shows in her interactions with... more
If you have your heart set on working it out, I would find a good trainer in your area that works with positive reinforcement and has lots of experience. If you'd like, you can email me at... more
Thank you, Ren. I know you speak with lots of knowledge behind your words. Personally, I have come to believe it is pretty serious. I don't think it will get like "killer" because we won't let it get ... more
should be an only dog. She's older and used to being the "leader". That being said, the only thing I would suggest would be a dog trainer. Sometimes an objective eye is needed. Good luck. What you're ... more
Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie),Mon Jun 11 5:06pm
I tend to agree with both of you that Daisy should be an only dog. She would be insanely happy. Maybe I just needed permission to give up but it may take awhile. :-) I know Maggie thinks that would... more
Oh, Well. We have two amazons (1 yellow-nape and 1 blue-front) that are 33 years old. I think they live to be 80. I guess I'm in it for the long haul. I just need to live to be 100 like my mother and ... more
Aww Betsy I'm so sorry about your brother ;( — Crystal/Ollie&Harriet,Mon Jun 11 3:06pm
Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie),Mon Jun 11 3:22pm
Thank you, Crystal, for your warm hugs, understanding, and ideas. I must admit I have wrestled with the idea of finding a home for Daisy. I guess I'm not there yet, but I agree that she would be... more
Have you tried lots of praises and possibly some high value treats when the two of them are relaxing nicely together, or even playing nicely? I wish I could be more help, and really look forward to... more
We do praise and offer their favorite treats when they are ignoring one another and are in the same area. They really have never played together at all and pretty much avoid one another and keep... more
Have you tried walking both at the same time? Having Maggie lead the way? They do say that dogs leading the way ARE the pack leader. Perhaps you walk Maggie just a few steps ahead, while someone else ... more
Worth a try! — Betsy (Mom of Maggie),Mon Jun 11 3:09pm
Thanks for the suggestions! We have not yet tried walking them together with Maggie in front. We will definitely do that. Both dogs get a mile walk daily with my husband walking Maggie in the... more
LOL..I guess I can relate. Creasey is only 8 months but he's just a big goofball. You can so tell he's the gentle type and not an aggressive Alpha male. He'll puff up his chest and bark, and it's a... more