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Betsy (Mom of Maggie)
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Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:22pm

Thank you, Crystal, for your warm hugs, understanding, and ideas. I must admit I have wrestled with the idea of finding a home for Daisy. I guess I'm not there yet, but I agree that she would be happier. She is a sweet dog and, of course, I've known her for years and love her. However, if I could find that home where I felt certain she would be happy (and I could check in on her), I might could do it. Who on earth, however, wants a 10 year old bossy mixed breed for their only pet? She is so cute sometimes, though. Today, I took Maggie for her daily ride in the van and when we returned, Daisy had dug out of the cottage yard and met us with the happiest, proudest face...jumping and laughing as if to say "I've been trying for months and I finally did it! Aren't you proud of me?" And, I must admit, I was happy for her. Now I have to go fill a hole three feet deep!

(Maggie wasn't so proud of her.

  • Need advice or comfort — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 2:24pm
    I will start by saying that Maggie is fine. So don't worry about the subject line. This will be way too long, but it has been growing for awhile. My brother who lived in Texas became ill (strokes,... more
    • Sorry for your loss Betsy (nm) — Maria, Nadal and Iker, Tue Jun 12 9:02pm
      • Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 9:44pm
        Funny how the death of a close family member has such long lasting impact and changes your life. I have to consider my brother's age and poor health and accept that it was time. However, he was such... more
    • Hi Betsy, you probably already know — Cristy(Mali and Honey), Tue Jun 12 4:08pm
      about http://www.petrescuebyjudy.com/ I live in Altamonte and know people that found their rescues through her. They even have a section for Senior dogs. Can't hurt to gve her a call. I feel so bad... more
      • Pets by Judy — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 9:31pm
        I have heard of her and actually have seen her at a few places. That is a good suggestion. I am still trying to get my brain around giving her away, but I am a little more open to it. Of course, if I ... more
    • Betsy, where do you guys live? Maybe we can help — Crystal/Ollie&Harriet, Tue Jun 12 11:46am
      with finding Daisy the perfect home near you so you can visit her? I love the idea of renting out your guest house, but let me ask you, would Daisy and Maggie share the same back yard still? You'd... more
      • Daisy the Dominator — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 2:14pm
        Hi Crystal, It has been so great to discuss this here because I feel like I am gaining some perspective and getting some great advice...which I really needed. You are so sweet to offer to find her a... more
    • Oh, I'm so sorry... — Jen T (Ole & Ivy), Mon Jun 11 9:05pm
      What an awful thing to be dealing with on top of the loss of your brother. I'm so sorry for your loss. I really admire that you decided to adopt your brother's dog. But I'm sure that you had no idea... more
      • I think you're right — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 10:54pm
        Hi Jen, Daisy has really surprised me. She seems docile and sort of easy-going and then she goes for the blood! She is just very assertive in many ways and it really shows in her interactions with... more
    • I would get a trainer involved. — Ren, Mon Jun 11 7:51pm
      If you have your heart set on working it out, I would find a good trainer in your area that works with positive reinforcement and has lots of experience. If you'd like, you can email me at... more
      • trainer — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 8:41pm
        Thank you, Ren. I know you speak with lots of knowledge behind your words. Personally, I have come to believe it is pretty serious. I don't think it will get like "killer" because we won't let it get ... more
    • I tend to agree with Crystal that Daisy — Donna (Ariel), Mon Jun 11 3:33pm
      should be an only dog. She's older and used to being the "leader". That being said, the only thing I would suggest would be a dog trainer. Sometimes an objective eye is needed. Good luck. What you're ... more
      • Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 5:06pm
        I tend to agree with both of you that Daisy should be an only dog. She would be insanely happy. Maybe I just needed permission to give up but it may take awhile. :-) I know Maggie thinks that would... more
        • Depends on the kind of conure, sun conures — Donna (Ariel), Mon Jun 11 7:36pm
          and the like live around 20 years. Now if you have one of the larger conures you could be looking at 50 years.
          • Conures — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 8:23pm
            Oh, Well. We have two amazons (1 yellow-nape and 1 blue-front) that are 33 years old. I think they live to be 80. I guess I'm in it for the long haul. I just need to live to be 100 like my mother and ... more
    • Aww Betsy I'm so sorry about your brother ;( — Crystal/Ollie&Harriet, Mon Jun 11 3:06pm
      You are an Angel for bringing him and his family to be with you guys! I'm sure you made some forever memories during that time for sure.. It's a very noble thing what you are trying to do with Daisy, ... more
      • Thank you — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 3:22pm
    • Re: Need advice or comfort — JC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 2:33pm
      Have you tried lots of praises and possibly some high value treats when the two of them are relaxing nicely together, or even playing nicely? I wish I could be more help, and really look forward to... more
      • Praise and treats — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 2:39pm
        We do praise and offer their favorite treats when they are ignoring one another and are in the same area. They really have never played together at all and pretty much avoid one another and keep... more
        • Re: Praise and treats — JC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 2:52pm
          Have you tried walking both at the same time? Having Maggie lead the way? They do say that dogs leading the way ARE the pack leader. Perhaps you walk Maggie just a few steps ahead, while someone else ... more
          • Worth a try! — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 3:09pm
            Thanks for the suggestions! We have not yet tried walking them together with Maggie in front. We will definitely do that. Both dogs get a mile walk daily with my husband walking Maggie in the... more
            • Re: Worth a try! — JC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 3:14pm
              LOL..I guess I can relate. Creasey is only 8 months but he's just a big goofball. You can so tell he's the gentle type and not an aggressive Alpha male. He'll puff up his chest and bark, and it's a... more
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