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Betsy (Mom of Maggie)
Daisy the Dominator
Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:14pm

Hi Crystal,

It has been so great to discuss this here because I feel like I am gaining some perspective and getting some great advice...which I really needed. You are so sweet to offer to find her a "forever home".

We live just a bit north of Orlando in Seminole Woods Community which is between Geneva and Oviedo. We are pretty "in the country". We have six acres, so the house and cottage don't share a yard though both are fenced. I would love to find the perfect home for Daisy, but I still doubt anyone will want her. In addition to her need to dominate, she digs. She lived in West Texas and the ground is so hard there, she never dug out..though she did dig a shallow indention in a flower bed that was "her spot". My husband put a temporary fence around the guest house when my brother came so Daisy could go in and out as needed without leashing her. She promptly began digging herself a nice deep cave which was great fun for her here in sandy Florida and we just left it because she loved to lie in it and peek out. She must have felt like she had super-powers! Now, when I put her back in the guest cottage after the last incident with Maggie, she dug out under the fence and chased the deer until she could barely walk. I repaired the hole (probably not too well and my husband is out of town until tonight) and she promptly dug out again and chased deer. The deer are sort of our pets so they must think we have turned on them, too. Now I am walking her twice daily and keeping her inside the guest house until my husband can fix it tomorrow. He said he is going to lay wire fencing overground in the entire fenced area. He must be an angel because he is really NOT happy with Daisy though he is coming to believe that dogs have a pecking order and that maybe we can't change it very much, thus taking some of the blame off her and looking for solutions.

So, if you find someone nearby who would truly love a 10 year old dominating (very healthy) sand-kicking, lab/whatever cross, I am interested. Otherwise, we will make her life as happy as possible in the guest house. I can't help but love her, but not sure anyone else will. I don't see her ever returning to Maggie's domain. It has really made me appreciate how easy Maggie is to care for, manage, train and love. She is just a wonderful little "follower" who always tries to do the right thing except when she is too excited like when company comes. (Like I didn't think she was the "Cat's Meow" before!)

Thanks again to you and everyone for support!




  • Need advice or comfortBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 2:24pm
    I will start by saying that Maggie is fine. So don't worry about the subject line. This will be way too long, but it has been growing for awhile. My brother who lived in Texas became ill (strokes,... more
    • Sorry for your loss Betsy (nm)Maria, Nadal and Iker, Tue Jun 12 9:02pm
      • Thank you Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 9:44pm
        Funny how the death of a close family member has such long lasting impact and changes your life. I have to consider my brother's age and poor health and accept that it was time. However, he was such... more
    • Hi Betsy, you probably already knowCristy(Mali and Honey), Tue Jun 12 4:08pm
      about http://www.petrescuebyjudy.com/ I live in Altamonte and know people that found their rescues through her. They even have a section for Senior dogs. Can't hurt to gve her a call. I feel so bad... more
      • Pets by JudyBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 9:31pm
        I have heard of her and actually have seen her at a few places. That is a good suggestion. I am still trying to get my brain around giving her away, but I am a little more open to it. Of course, if I ... more
    • Betsy, where do you guys live? Maybe we can helpCrystal/Ollie&Harriet, Tue Jun 12 11:46am
      with finding Daisy the perfect home near you so you can visit her? I love the idea of renting out your guest house, but let me ask you, would Daisy and Maggie share the same back yard still? You'd... more
      • Daisy the Dominator — Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Tue Jun 12 2:14pm
    • Oh, I'm so sorry...Jen T (Ole & Ivy), Mon Jun 11 9:05pm
      What an awful thing to be dealing with on top of the loss of your brother. I'm so sorry for your loss. I really admire that you decided to adopt your brother's dog. But I'm sure that you had no idea... more
      • I think you're rightBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 10:54pm
        Hi Jen, Daisy has really surprised me. She seems docile and sort of easy-going and then she goes for the blood! She is just very assertive in many ways and it really shows in her interactions with... more
    • I would get a trainer involved. Ren, Mon Jun 11 7:51pm
      If you have your heart set on working it out, I would find a good trainer in your area that works with positive reinforcement and has lots of experience. If you'd like, you can email me at... more
      • trainerBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 8:41pm
        Thank you, Ren. I know you speak with lots of knowledge behind your words. Personally, I have come to believe it is pretty serious. I don't think it will get like "killer" because we won't let it get ... more
    • I tend to agree with Crystal that Daisy Donna (Ariel), Mon Jun 11 3:33pm
      should be an only dog. She's older and used to being the "leader". That being said, the only thing I would suggest would be a dog trainer. Sometimes an objective eye is needed. Good luck. What you're ... more
      • Thank youBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 5:06pm
        I tend to agree with both of you that Daisy should be an only dog. She would be insanely happy. Maybe I just needed permission to give up but it may take awhile. :-) I know Maggie thinks that would... more
        • Depends on the kind of conure, sun conuresDonna (Ariel), Mon Jun 11 7:36pm
          and the like live around 20 years. Now if you have one of the larger conures you could be looking at 50 years.
          • ConuresBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 8:23pm
            Oh, Well. We have two amazons (1 yellow-nape and 1 blue-front) that are 33 years old. I think they live to be 80. I guess I'm in it for the long haul. I just need to live to be 100 like my mother and ... more
    • Aww Betsy I'm so sorry about your brother ;(Crystal/Ollie&Harriet, Mon Jun 11 3:06pm
      You are an Angel for bringing him and his family to be with you guys! I'm sure you made some forever memories during that time for sure.. It's a very noble thing what you are trying to do with Daisy, ... more
      • Thank youBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 3:22pm
        Thank you, Crystal, for your warm hugs, understanding, and ideas. I must admit I have wrestled with the idea of finding a home for Daisy. I guess I'm not there yet, but I agree that she would be... more
    • Re: Need advice or comfortJC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 2:33pm
      Have you tried lots of praises and possibly some high value treats when the two of them are relaxing nicely together, or even playing nicely? I wish I could be more help, and really look forward to... more
      • Praise and treatsBetsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 2:39pm
        We do praise and offer their favorite treats when they are ignoring one another and are in the same area. They really have never played together at all and pretty much avoid one another and keep... more
        • Re: Praise and treatsJC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 2:52pm
          Have you tried walking both at the same time? Having Maggie lead the way? They do say that dogs leading the way ARE the pack leader. Perhaps you walk Maggie just a few steps ahead, while someone else ... more
          • Worth a try!Betsy (Mom of Maggie), Mon Jun 11 3:09pm
            Thanks for the suggestions! We have not yet tried walking them together with Maggie in front. We will definitely do that. Both dogs get a mile walk daily with my husband walking Maggie in the... more
            • Re: Worth a try!JC56 (Creasey), Mon Jun 11 3:14pm
              LOL..I guess I can relate. Creasey is only 8 months but he's just a big goofball. You can so tell he's the gentle type and not an aggressive Alpha male. He'll puff up his chest and bark, and it's a... more
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