Looking at your picture from Starbucks, your groomer has already done some of this - I'd just ask for less distinction between the topknot and ears, a little more length on the muzzle, and no pom or band on the tail.
How is life in hormone land this weekend? Are you all crazy yet??
Alot of groomers don't know what to do with very poodly doodles to avoid making them look like poodles. Ask her to avoid poodle styling elements like defined separation of the ears, rounded topknot,... more