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donk
I'm with you...
Sun Dec 19, 2010 07:39
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with respect to the possibility of reincarnation, at least as a life energy. When I was influenced (as a child) by Japanese, they sort of instilled in me the idea that once we are human, we will always be human in some way. Plus, as I recall, they believed it was our personal choice to return or not. Might be Shinto -- I don't recall the technical specifics, but rather just some of the "lore."

I think children have a hard time accepting that something -- a soul -- that was once here and influential can just go away. I know I always did. I could understand death, but I couldn't understand how there could be an utter and absolute end.

Of course, when you are four or five and watching them wring the necks of chickens for Sunday dinner, the idea of dying gets pretty close to home!

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